Thursday, May 26, 2011

Violet Ann Eloise is 6 months!

This post will be short, and pictureless, but I wanted to get some Violet news up before I forget!  Hopefully I will have pictures, candid and professional, up shortly.  

Violet turned 6 months on Monday.  I can't believe it!  Time is such a funny thing, and its gone ridiculously fast.  Here are some Violet Benchmarks:

  • Rolling all over the place, both ways
  • Scooting like a worm
  • less high pitched screaming...HOORAY!
  • still not taking a bottle
  • eating every 2.5 - 3 hrs
  • Just this week we've moved bed time up from 8:30 or 9:00, to 7:30ish.  She usually wakes up an hour and a half later to get a quick snack in...and then wakes up one or two more times before 7:00.
  • Naps are not our strength...mostly moms fault.  I need to get more regular in my schedule, so she can be regular and not sleep deprived...I'm just being selfish
  • she's in 6-12 or 9 mnth clothes
  • She LOVES watching Benjamin
  • She LOVES being tickled.
  • She also loves this song I sing, "I'm a little kitty and my momma loves me...Goodnight" it makes her giggle if I look her in the eyes while I sing it...and it just makes her snuggle otherwise
  • She has a forward swing, and sideways swing, a vibrating seat, a play mat, and a bumbo...SO MUCH STUFF! but her newest favorite is the Excersaucer.  :)
  • We started cereal, and it went ok the first two weeks, but she's started just letting it run out the sides of her mouth.  She also has had Veggie Puffs.  She eats the first one fine, and then starts to spit them out...followed by Benjamin yelling "Uh OH!"
  • I'm wearing her a TON the last two months.  She loves it, and I love my hands!  Its awesome because I don't have to decide between her and my house...I get to love on them both.  :) haha
  • No teeth yet.  my predictions were wrong.

Well, thats all that comes to mind now...actually, I could probably write more, but its 8:49 and both kids have been in bed since 7.  I am EXHAUSTED and will take this opportunity to go to bed crazy early.  Have a good night!

Monday, May 23, 2011

On the road again- part 2

Well, after waking up Sunday morning, and sleepily re-packing our belongings, we ate a quick breakfast (more importantly guzzled some coffee - thank you Lora! I depleted you of coffee and creamer...sorry!)  and Benjamin unwrapped some birthday presents from Grandma and Grandpa.  Play Dough, A View Finder and Puzzles!  Benjamin LOVED them!  And somewhere around 10:30, we hit the road.

The plan was to leave MN and drive about 9 hours, with a quick stop in Ames.  The 3.5 hr trip to Ames is fuzzy in my memory, but if I remember correctly, Benjamin was out in the first 15 minutes, and Violet slept half the trip again, and was awaken by yet another dirty diaper...more curses against poo!

Our stop at home was a little longer than planned, but I planned on it being longer than planned, so that means that it was exactly according to plans, right?  haha  We stopped for about an hour, and picked up some things that we needed for the remainder of our trip.  We also made some sandwiches and had a late lunch.  Benjamin was even more patient than normal with our 1:15 lunch.  yeah!  we used up some milk, and avacado that couldn't wait till our return home, and washed up dishes that got left behind after the first leg of our trip.  Joel made some coffee, then, it was back in our car seats (much to the children's dismay!) and we were off.

Benjamin slept again, and Violet did O.K. (are you noticing a trend?  Benjamin's a pretty great traveler now, and Violet poos too much :))  Finally...9:00p.m. or 10:00ish, I forget, we were at our hotel in NE, and ready for a new sleeping environment.  We "unpacked" enough for a 12 hour stay, and started to put the babes down.  It was super late, and they were super tired, but all in all, it went remarkably.  We only have one pack n' play, so Violet usually gets to sleep with momma, and Benjamin has gotten quite comfortable in his new sleep zone.    In fact, as I wrote most of this entry, he napped in his pack n' play, and I just laid on the bed next to his "crib".  He played for about 15 minutes, and when I told him to lay down and go to sleep, he put his head on his pillow, and started pretend snoring, until they became real ones. :)  I LOVE IT!  He's been waking up quite a bit at night (on the trip,compared to normal), and we're learning that he goes back to sleep best if we let him cry out unattended once or twice...Otherwise, Joel pats him on the back and he conks out again...(opposed to if I pick him up, he's up for good.  no matter what time it is!  I learned this the hard way.:( 

We were up and at 'em the next morning around 7ish, and went down to the continental breakfast with our swim suits on and eyes focused on the pool!  Violet doesn't have a suit yet, and just watched from her Bumbo on the side lines, but Benjamin's NEMO swim trunks still fit from last summer (the waist is fine, however the length is a bit short!).  Joel and I were SO EXCITED to take turns with Benjamin in the pool, and the other relaxing in the hot tub.  Sadly, however, the hot tub was so ridiculously hot...i'm talking scald your toes in seconds...we both hit the pool with Benjamin.  He wasn't a fan at first, but Violet got lonely just watching us, so I took her upstairs, and Joel got Benjamin to relax and splash around.  We then showered, packed up, let Benjamin run around in a Veterans park nearby, and hit the road again.

This 6 hour leg of the trip was pretty great...I think hour 3 and 5 weren't all that great, but I'm thankful for the other 4  hours.  Benjamin slept a ton, and loved looking out and seeing cow, after cow, after cow, and the occasional horse.  Violet is starting to do better playing on her own with toys, but she drops them a lot, and once she sees me, she wants me to hold her.  Its tricky!

Finally late afternoon came, and we were at our final destination!  Glen Eyrie Conference Center:


Rough, I know.  The sacrifices we make for ministry...:)  This is the castle, and beautiful setting of Glen Eyrie...Navigator Headquarters.  Joel attends some sessions in the great hall, near the top of the castle, and most of our dinning is in the Hall connected to the left of this picture.  Other than that, the campus has several buildings, lodges, meeting rooms, etc, that are disconnected from the castle.  We are staying in a one room hotel like room with two queen beds, a dresser, and a bathroom.  Its on a floor with many other married couples and new babies, and also the location of a meeting room for about half of the sessions.  It has a shared space for laundry, ice machine, microwave, fridge, and tile floor (important for play dough creations!).  

So far Benjamin has seen:


Great Horned Sheep Portrait .

The deer welcomed us right when we arrived, and the turkeys have hung out right outside our lodge the whole time we've been here.  We only got to see the great horned sheep once so far, but Benjamin looks for them constantly.  We're hoping to see them again before we leave!  They also gave Daddy the highlight of his trip, when we saw them right on top of a foot hill as the sun was setting.  It was an incredible sight!

Well Daddy is busy most days attending meetings, and studying for an upcoming test.  I knew we wouldn't see much of him while we were here, but waking up and having him here in the mornings seemed worth the long car ride!  My only request was to all eat meals together, and I promised to have no expectations of the rest of our time!  It was so great, on our "free day", Daddy took the morning off studying, and we headed off to Focus on the Families, Whit's End.  
camp what a nut toddler room

This room was the 0-4 room, and although all the other slides and planes, and ice cream shop interested Joel and I, this was Benjamin's favorite zone.  He was O.K. with the awesome airplane, and whits end coffee shop, but really just LOVED the 4 ft slide in the Toddler room. :)

Well, after Benjamin got a bite to eat and some milk at Whits End, we headed back to Glen Eyrie.  Joel and I picked up some food to bring back and after putting both kiddos to sleep had a nice uninterrupted lunch in a quite conference room.

The rest of the week included more DVD's (The Letter Factory - to be specific) gazillions of walks, some kickball, and more play dough! (Benjamin's favorite play dough activity is taking everything , dough and tools, out and then figuring out how it all fits back in the container.  Its hard for me to watch!)

Saturday came and upon realizing that the conference was pretty much done we made the call to pack up and leave.  Joel was up for the challenge of driving through the night. So drive we did.  I might write about that more soon, but this post has been sitting in my drafts box for more than a week now, so I'm just going to end it!  All in all, Joel and I are both so glad that we made it a trip of FOUR!


Friday, May 13, 2011

On the road again

1,973 miles
31 hrs + rest stops in the van
11 days away from home
5 different beds
2 little people 
1 happy/crazy family

TRIP #1: A WALK DOWN THE ISLE
May 5th started out a little nutty with Joel running errands, cleaning out the car and spending unexpected time on the phone clarifying insurance details about Violet.  I had spent the previous day doing laundry, laundry and more laundry, and purposefully decided not to pack until I could lay everything out in front of me.  This meant that Thursday morning I needed to pack EVERYTHING for our 11 day adventure....and it needed to be done by 1:00pm.  I've had better ideas. :)

We got on the road only 45 minutes late and the kids slept pretty well on the 3.5 hr trip.  Violet didn't do so hot on the second half of the trip (curses to dirty diapers that wake up babies).  But we finally arrived, and Joel was off again to meet up with the guys for the bachelor party.  Benjamin had a blast with his cousins in their big back yard, and after a tasty supper and quick bath, we were off bed.  Normally this wouldn't be much of a note worthy event, but the last 4 months Benjamin has been a mommas boy who lets me put him down for naps, and frequently wants me to hold him, but only goes down well at bed time for daddy, especially when we're traveling.  To make a long story shorter, I didn't have any extra hands available when I was putting Benjamin down, and Violet needed to eat, and we all three ended up in the bed Joel and I were staying in - till Joel got home...Unfortunately Benjamin likes to flop around a lot, and he silently, yes silently, flopped from 8:30 - 10:45.  The only words spoken were the occasional whisper, "pillow...pillow", from Benjamin's tired lips  And there you have the account of the first night of 11 on the road :)

The next night was fuzzy.  Thats what sleep deprivation does to a person.  During the day Joel got Benjamin down for a nap, and we (Daddy Momma and Violet) went to the mall to pick up Joel's tux and get something for me to wear to the wedding.  (Note to all: when borrowing a friends dress, try it on before you travel...or at least bring a back up!)  After Joel VERY patiently shopped with me, we picked up his tux and found Benjamin back at the Whitehouse residence snacking with his cousins! (Grandma was a saint and agreed to watch Benjamin along with Henry and Jace!).  Our little man played so very hard the rest of the afternoon with his cousins and I was able to slip out later that night(with Violet) and join Joel at the rehearsal dinner...It was at this Chinese restaurant and SUPER yummy!  If I remember right, Joel came home after rehearsal, put Benjamin down and picked up Violet and I.  I felt like an incredibly inept mother who couldn't even put her own child to sleep, but I just tell myself he loves me so much he doesn't like to see me go! :)  After dinner, Joel dropped his women off and went out again with the guys.  He got back so late, but had some good times with friends he doesn't see very often.

Saturday morning - wedding day - started much earlier than I would have liked.  I woke up early to Benjamin crying "help help help!", and let Joel sleep due to his back to back late nights!.  Joel was off at 10:30 to start groomsmen duties, and Benjamin played outside for a large portion of the day.  I wasted much of the morning trying to get Benjamin down for an early nap.  He was EXHAUSTED, and I was pretty tried myself.  I thought it would be nice to get him down early, but he had other plans.  The beautiful sunshine, fun cousins and lack of daddy prohibited sleep, and finally I called in grandma for some much needed back up.  She rocked him to sleep, no problem!  Violet and I cleaned up and got to the wedding.  It was fun sitting with  the Lewicki family, and pretty great having all the boys at the sitters!  Its not often that we get to have uninterrupted conversation.  I missed having Joel around during the reception (he had to sit at the head table,) but was VERY appreciative that Daddy took time between the reception and the "after-party" to come back and put Benjamin to bed.  Violet and I made a last minute decision to go to the dance, and it probably wasn't the best decision of the weekend.  We left the party early and Grandma and Grandpa took us home to bed! 

After another late night for Joel, we woke up Sunday morning, and began loading up to hit the road for CO....but that is a story for another day...or at least sometime when my lap top battery isn't dying. :)